my mother's maiden name
by Jennifer Crystal Fang-Chien
she drew a couple
square and circle, side-by-side
in black Bic ballpoint;
underneath, smaller square and
circle.
pressing round and round
small circle
engraving the paper,
she said,
"zhe se you.
you are Daughter,
high position;
can do anything you want
talk with friend, play
tennis, freedom."
above all
she drew another
square and circle
and in the generation of her circle,
five squares and three circles in all.
tracing her circle, she said,
"here, I only
wife, daughter-in-law;
look at how many, among
eight shao hie."
she stabbed the extended diagram
with ballpoint.
"zhe se all CHIEN;
you and brother
both belong Chien."
she drew another circle and square
off to the side.
"wo shing FANG;
I don't have your blood.
but you: half Fang, half Chien."
"but look."
she waved her pointer
at her circle, at her children.
"where go Fang?
may yo la."
she nodded knowingly
"is why today
still no woman equal to
man; she lost her
maiden name."
(Mandarin) Chinese used in the poem:
zhe se - this is
shao hi - children
wo shing - i am named
may yo la - it's gone